An Overbearing Father

Reading and Writing: An Overbearing Father; write about your own experience




        I never have these type of experience in my life. So, I would like to share about my cousin. She is very nice, pretty, and cool lady in whole family. She doesn't do anything without inform to her dad. She had boy friend at 18 years old. She went to movie with him. Dialogue between my uncle and cousin.


Uncle: Why were you late?
Cousin: I came from movie dad.
Uncle: How dare you without informed to your mom and me. Not only that reason but also I didn't like him.
Cousin: Dad I just went to watch a movie.
Uncle: This age was not correct age for going to anywhere with them.
Cousin: Why?
Uncle: I couldn't explain. I was going to put undergrounded one week.

A Difficult experience in my childhood before and after editing

 Before 
     
                We are three sisters. I am the middle of them. My elder sister got married and younger sister pursued M.Pharm. When I was 8 years old they were very talented. They were better than me.Now they are jealous of me because I settled very well comparing to them. In my life, I had small difficult experience with my elder sister that was my elder sister have gold, clothes, bentex, and etc. So, always she is doing wrong that is my father has given money for buying clothes to my elder sister because me and my younger sister don't know which one is good/bad. My elder sister buy the good one for her (like quality, high price, good design) bad one for us. Still she don't change for her self. This is difficult experience in my life.


After

         We are three sisters. I am the middle one. My elder sister got married and younger sister pursued M.Pharmacy. When I was 8 years old, they were very talented. They were better than me. Now they are jealous of me because I settle very well compared to them. In my life, I had a difficult experience with my elder sister because she got all the gold, clothes, and bentex. So, she always mistreated us because my father would give her money to buy clothes for us all. Because my younger sister and I didn't know good and bad, my elder sister buy the good ones for herself better quality, high price, better design and inferior ones for us. This was a difficult experience in my life.

Temper Tantrum

1. Role Play with a partner: Having a Temper Tantrum. Then make a chirbit.com recording of it, following the intonation (music) of the podcast voices.
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1. Rewrite this list of tips.
1. List the tips in descending order of importance. Compare your list with your classmates.

        

When a preschool child throws a tantrum

Stay within the child's sight but carry on normal activities without talking to him or acknowledging the tantrum.

Acknowledge their feelings

This aligns you with them and sets the stage for him/her to begin to work through his own problems. For example, setting up a chart for positive behaviour they need to work towards helps your child to focus on a positive goal.

Start a clean slate

Once a tantrum is over, the child is entitled to start over with a clean slate. Comfort may be given, but any original demands the child had should not be fulfilled. Otherwise, tantrums will become a way of life.

Stay Strong

If a tantrum does happen you need to be strong. If you are out shopping, for example, leave the shopping basket where it is and take your child out to the car or somewhere quiet until the tantrum is over. They need to see they can't hold you hostage to a situation.

Develop a strategy

Have a clear plan for how you will handle a tantrum for a range of situations, ie; at home, out shopping, playing at friend's houses. If a tantrum then occurs, remember to focus on your plan rather than the tantrum. This will help keep you calm and in control.

Big tantrums often develop from little tantrums

The faster you can intervene or distract your child from a tantrum the better.

Keep a diary

For a few days - when the tantrums happen - note what time of day, what you are doing and what your child is doing, when it happens. If it always happens around dinner, try letting your child have her dinner earlier, giving her a bath before dinner, letting her help you prepare the meal, or having some special time with her at this time of day.

If you are unable to stay near

If you are unable to stay near because you feel yourself losing control and are worried about what you may do, tell your child that you will be leaving for a short time but will be back soon to look after him. Make sure he is safe and have someone else stay with him if you can.

Remind the child of what happened last time they mis-behaved

If your child is old enough to understand, you can remind them of past experiences and the consequences of misbehaving.

Distract your child

Refocus their attention by calmly offering something else to do, see, eat or play with.

1. Alphabetize the points. Again, check with your classmates, for accuracy.

Acknowledge their feelings

This aligns you with them and sets the stage for him/her to begin to work through his own problems. For example, setting up a chart for positive behaviour they need to work towards helps your child to focus on a positive goal.

Big tantrums often develop from little tantrums

The faster you can intervene or distract your child from a tantrum the better.

Develop a strategy

Have a clear plan for how you will handle a tantrum for a range of situations, ie; at home, out shopping, playing at friend's houses. If a tantrum then occurs, remember to focus on your plan rather than the tantrum. This will help keep you calm and in control.

Distract your child

Refocus their attention by calmly offering something.

If you are unable to stay near

If you are unable to stay near because you feel yourself losing control and are worried about what you may do, tell your child that you will be leaving for a short time but will be back soon to look after him. Make sure he is safe and have someone else stay with him if you can.

Keep a diary

For a few days - when the tantrums happen - note what time of day, what you are doing and what your child is doing, when it happens. If it always happens around dinner, try letting your child have her dinner earlier, giving her a bath before dinner, letting her help you prepare the meal, or having some special time with her at this time of day.

Remind the child of what happened last time they mis-behaved

If your child is old enough to understand, you can remind them of past experiences and the consequences of misbehaving.

Start a clean slate

Once a tantrum is over, the child is entitled to start over with a clean slate. Comfort may be given, but any original demands the child had should not be fulfilled. Otherwise, tantrums will become a way of life.

Stay Strong

If a tantrum does happen you need to be strong. If you are out shopping, for example, leave the shopping basket where it is and take your child out to the car or somewhere quiet until the tantrum is over. They need to see they can't hold you hostage to a situation.

When a preschool child throws a tantrum

Stay within the child's sight but carry on normal activities without talking to him or acknowledging the tantrum.

Difficult experience in your childhood

         We are three sisters. I am the middle of them. My elder sister got married and younger sister pursued M.Pharm. When I was 8years old they were very talented. They were better than me.Now they are jealous of me because I settled very well comparing to them. In my life, I had small difficult experience with my elder sister that was my elder sister have gold, clothes, bentex, and etc. So, always she is doing wrong that is my father has given money for buying clothes to my elder sister because me and my younger sister don't know which one is good/bad. My elder sister buy the good one for her (like quality, high price, good design) bad one for us. Still she don't change for her self. This is difficult experience in my life.

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Camping.........

1. Check out 5 differences between day camping and overnight camping in the city. Compare your list with your partner’s. Then post a combined list on your blog.

                 Day camping                                                      Overnight camping

              

             1)Going to local trips, outdoor activities,            1)Going to outside trips, and long journey trips.

                adventure camping etc.

            

            2)In local trips, we are using only prepared        2)In outside trips, we are using tents, chairs, barbecue                   food, toys for kids.                                          machin, fresh food for food preparation, milk, oil,                                                                                              blankets, mosquito cream, and some useful things for                                                                                     camping.

       

             3)In day camping, we can go through                3)In overnight camping definitely we can go through by 

                by bus/subway, and we can use car also.         car.

           

           4)In day camping, we can go anywhere from       4)In overnight, we can't enjoy any other places we have 

              that place.                                                       to enjoy that camping ground only. 

           5)In day camping, we can't prepare so much      5)In overnight, we can prepare so much food as our                       food.                                                              favorite list.
            
           6)This type of camping no need to book camp    6)This type of camping we have to book camp ground  
              ground, we can go directly.                               first-come, first-serve.

            7)Day camping we can't enjoy campfire.           7)overnight camping we can enjoy campfire.

1. Below your combined list, compare it with camping and other recreational activities in your country of origin. Embed a picture and a video with your comparison.
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       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDfA9z8xoo0 --------------This link is related to India camping.
       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwZvJgcdklw---------------This link is related to Canada camping

                

About CN Tower trip

             Before corrections:
         
        

           1.The first paragraph answers the W-H questions: Who, when, why, how much, etc

          
                      I started at 8.30am through Subway.In, Subway I faced some problems like a signal problem and I   didn't get a seat so hardly one hour I stood there. My husband drop's me in CN Tower so easily arrived there at 9.50am. I went inside near to the ticket counter.At first I worried a little bit  because  I didn't see anybody.Suddenly I turned left side I met Wen and  Chee I was so happy.Later on we took a group photos. Later on We were waiting 1hour because in ticket counter we got a problem. In ticket counter they said your tickets are not correct because they couldn't find our tickets in online.They rejected our tickets. The security guard's accused to us.First we disappointed.Joseph said please apologized me. Joseph has given better idea that is we have one alternative program those are going to 1) Harborfront2)HTO park3)Toronto music garden. He embarrassed about some things those are somebody kid's, friends, family members came to there.We went outside and planned to go harborfront.I had to wait there who would come with me.Toronto police's were come to there for this tickets issue.They started the inquiry about that situation, but they couldn't find any evidence. They wasted Joseph time.Me, Rana and Rana daughter went to Harborfront and Toronto Railway museum. I am first time to go near to Toronto railway museum nice place. I come back with Rana, Sassy, Thalin, and Rana daughter. Joseph refunded our money at the workshop. Anyways we made the best of our field trip. Thank you so much Joseph and friends.




  After corrections:
  

         I started on the subway at 8.30am.On the way I faced some problems like a signal problem, and I didn't get a seat, so I stood there for one hour. My husband dropped me at CN Tower so I easily arrived there at 9.50am.I went inside near to the ticket counter. At first I was bit worried because I didn't see anybody, suddenly I turned left and met Wen and Qi I was so happy. Later on we took some group photos.we waited one hour because at the ticket counter we had a problem.They said your tickets are not correct because they couldn't find our tickets in online. They rejected our tickets. The security guards accused of fraud. We were disappointed. Joseph said apologized to me. He suggested that we have an alternative program to 1)Harbourfront 2)HTO park 3)Toronto music park. He was embarrassed for those with kids, friends, and family members who had come with us. We went outside and planned to go to Harbourfront. I had to wait there for those who would come with us. Toronto polices came to investigate the ticket issue. They started the inquiry about that situation, but they couldn't find any evidence of fraud. They wasted Joseph's time. Rana, Rana's daughter, and I went to Harbourfront and Toronto Railway museum. It was first my time going to Railway museum. It was nice place. I came back with Rana, Rana daughter, Sassy, and Thalin. Joseph refunded our money back in class. Anyways we made the best of our field trip. Thank you so much Joseph and friends.